My Spouse Has A Gambling Problem
My husband has been gambling for years and I have caught him out on numerous occasions. The last time was a year ago and we are in the process of settling the debts and I thought just coming through it. The trouble is the lies - I feel I can never trust him so I go through his pockets!! Anyway the other day I found a betting slip and when I questioned him he said 'no' he has not been in a betting shop for ages. Obviously I had the slip in my hands so he couldnt deny it anymore - he said it was for the guys at work and I am blowing this out of all proportion. I feel absolutely 'gutted' and physically sick. We have 3 children ages 1, 6 and 10 and I know it would tear their world apart if we split up but what are the alternatives? I am in floods just typing this and I cannot see a way out. He has never gone to meetings and I dont think he is the kind of person who would see it through - he always says he can do it on his own. I am now at rock bottom but he carries on quite happily - what can I do? Any advice would be appreciated
My husband (we're married for a year now) is a gambling addict. It all started around 2 years ago when we moved and lived almost right next to a casino. I thought nothing of it since by my knowledge he was not a gambler nor ever was. My husband has occurred a serious gambling problem. He has always gambled in moderation but ever since they built the Casino up the street from us it has be come a problem. The worst pat is that the casino are cheating those slots are rigged and someone like me can see it for what it is. Authors contributing to this blog on Disordered Gambling are all recipients of the Shannon L. Bybee Award, presented by the Nevada Council on Problem Gambling in recognition of proactive commitment to problem gambling advocacy, education, and research. If you believe that you or a loved one may have a gambling problem, please call the 24-hour. Finally, tell your partner to get support from a gambling awareness charity such as Gamcare. What is the best odds bet in craps. They also offer confidential support and advice for family and friends of those with gambling problems. You can contact them online or by phone on 0808 8020 133 every day 8am to midnight.
What To Do When Your Spouse Has A Gambling Problem
My husband has been gambling for years and I have caught him out on numerous occasions. The last time was a year ago and we are in the process of settling the debts and I thought just coming through it. The trouble is the lies - I feel I can never trust him so I go through his pockets!! Anyway the other day I found a betting slip and when I questioned him he said 'no' he has not been in a betting shop for ages. Obviously I had the slip in my hands so he couldnt deny it anymore - he said it was for the guys at work and I am blowing this out of all proportion. I feel absolutely 'gutted' and physically sick. We have 3 children ages 1, 6 and 10 and I know it would tear their world apart if we split up but what are the alternatives? I am in floods just typing this and I cannot see a way out. He has never gone to meetings and I dont think he is the kind of person who would see it through - he always says he can do it on his own. I am now at rock bottom but he carries on quite happily - what can I do? Any advice would be appreciated